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I Thought It Was Just Me: The Quiet Struggle of Women with Undiagnosed ADHD

I Thought It Was Just Me: The Quiet Struggle of Women with Undiagnosed ADHD

At 52, the author’s ADHD diagnosis recasts decades of anxiety, burnout, and being labeled “too much.” Perfectionism hid her struggles, but naming them replaces shame with self-compassion and unlocks creativity. She now relies on structured routines and community support, urging women 40 + to consider ADHD—knowledge as a liberating compass.

Shonell Bacon

Shonell Bacon

Recently diagnosed AuDHDerJun 26, 2025
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ADHD is not 'laziness' or a 'bad character.' You may — from time to time or almost constantly — face these signs:

  • It's hard to start or finish things. Tasks 'hang,' deadlines pile up.
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    Thoughts jump, it's hard to focus. Any 'push' or sound throws you off.
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    Anxiety and obsessive worries. Your brain replays the same scenarios.
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    Irritability and mood swings. Emotions flare up faster than you'd like.
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    Feeling overwhelmed. It seems like there's too much and 'I'm about to explode.'
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    Hyperactivity or inner restlessness. It's hard for your body and mind to 'pause.'
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    Forgetfulness, losing things or thoughts 'drift away.'

❗ This is normal. You are okay — your brain just works differently.

🫶 We are here to help. ADHD Helper collects techniques, audio support, and self-help tools that already help thousands of people cope with these symptoms every day.


How ADHD Helper helps
  • Audio affirmations 'for now' — 25 short recordings with supportive phrases adapted to specific ADHD states.
  • Ambient sound for every state — 6 atmospheric tracks (rain, fireplace, cafe, etc.) to muffle noise and help you focus.
  • Mini self-help techniques — step-by-step CBT, DBT, and mindfulness practices you can do in 2–5 minutes.
  • Short explanations — in simple words, why the technique helps with the chosen state.

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What you get
  • All 25 audio affirmations + early access to new ones
  • Extended set of techniques
  • Mood journal
  • Ambient mixer
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How it helps
  • Take a short test to assess your symptoms.
  • Receive personalized recommendations.
  • Start following them to improve your well-being.

Try Premium free for 7 days and get access to all features to improve focus and manage symptoms.

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